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July 26, 2009
MALAYSIA: Old and Abandoned
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SELANGOR / The Malaysia Star / Citizen's Blog / July 26, 2009
OLD AND ABANDONED
A growing reports of children abandoning their parents in old folks homes or not supporting them are on the raise in Malaysia. I urge the relevant ministry to enact a law to punish the errant children! Instead of asking the government to spend more money to build nursing homes or old folks homes, it would be better if we get the children to care for their elderly parents.
I’ve seen many elderly people who have been abandoned in the old folks homes or hospitals and their children hardly visit them, even on festive occasions. The ministry should implement a law in so that these ungrateful children can be punished in a court of law before they are judged under God’s laws in the afterlife.
Although some may think it’s a personal issue but filial piety to parent are still in the act of any religions! In Singapore, a law was implemented in 1995 under the Maintenance of Parents Act, which makes it a legal obligation for children to maintain their parents. The parents or the public can report to the Social Welfare Department.
Certain parties may feel that some elderly parents are neglected not because their children do not want them, but because the children do not have the money so the relevant ministry should have schemes and welfare benefits in place to help the needy or help them to find a solution.
For those who really have no time to care for their parents but can afford it, they can send them to well-run private homes or employ a maid. I take a pragmatic view that my proposal won't affect the people who already are supporting their parents, not only with money but, it is hoped, with love and respect. The only ones who need worry are those who aren't living up to their moral obligations. If the law helps even one poor person, I think the effort is worth it! [rc]
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